AI finds your perfect partner using psychological compatibility—not just photos. Join thousands finding real relationships.
No more wasted time. No more ghosting. No more games.
AI handles matching. Get one quality match at a time, chosen for you.
Private until you share. Perfect for professionals, religious communities, anyone valuing discretion.
Face and ID verification. Zero bots, fakes, or scammers.
PhD-designed profiles beyond looks. Match on values, goals, compatibility.
$25 per person, only when you both accept. No subscriptions or hidden fees.
Built for real connections. Want hookups? Tinder is that way →
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With Abby, pay $25 when you match. No wasted time. No wasted money.
Why Abby works when others don't
Four simple steps
Quick face ID verification. Everything stays confidential.
30-45 min conversation building your psychological profile. PhD-designed questions.
AI presents one quality match with detailed compatibility. Accept or pass.
Both accept? Share photos, exchange numbers. Pay $25 each when you both say yes.
Whether you're looking for someone who shares your values, background, or life goals—Abby welcomes everyone.
Your profile stays private until you're ready to share.
Every culture, religion, orientation, and identity is respected.
AI matches based on what truly matters to you.
Join thousands who found their match
"After 3 years on Tinder with zero dates, Abby matched me with my fiancée in 2 weeks. The psychological matching actually works!"
"The privacy feature was perfect for me. I could take my time and be selective without pressure. Met someone amazing who truly gets me!"
"Single dad with limited time. Abby's AI did the work—no wasting hours swiping. Worth every penny of the $25."
"The psychological profile depth amazed me. Finally, someone who gets my values. We're planning our future together!"
"After a painful divorce, I was skeptical. But Abby's matching was spot-on. My partner understands me in ways I didn't think possible."
"The no-bots guarantee is real. Every match was verified and actually interested. Refreshing after years on other apps."
Date without broadcasting. Perfect for those who value discretion—religious communities, public figures, or anyone seeking privacy.
You control what you share and when.
No subscriptions. No tricks.
Pay $25 per person when you both accept
Everything you need to know
Our AI uses PhD-designed psychological assessment with 150+ questions to understand your personality, values, goals, preferences. It analyzes compatibility across multiple dimensions using Gottman Method principles.
Only when both you and your match accept each other and agree to share contact info. If anyone passes, you pay nothing. No upfront fees, no subscriptions for basic matching.
Absolutely. Your profile is never publicly viewable. Matches don't see photos until you both accept. Perfect for anyone valuing discretion—professionals, religious communities, public figures, or anyone seeking privacy.
Two-step: (1) Face verification with liveness detection, (2) ID verification. Eliminates bots, catfishers, fakes. All data encrypted and never shared publicly.
Initial assessment takes 30-45 minutes via voice or text with Abby. You can pause and resume anytime. While longer than other apps, it enables high-quality matching.
Everyone! Abby welcomes all orientations, backgrounds, religions, and relationship preferences. Our AI is designed to understand diverse relationship dynamics and match accordingly, with privacy features for discretion.
One quality match at a time, not hundreds. Typically 1-3 per week, carefully selected. Quality over quantity prevents overwhelm and helps you focus on real connections.
Abby is designed for meaningful relationships—long-term partnership, marriage, serious dating. For hookups, we'd honestly recommend Tinder. Our matching optimizes for compatibility and relationship potential.
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Join thousands finding real relationships. Download Abby and let AI do the work.
Free to download. Pay only when you match. iOS and Android.